Thursday, 21 December 2017

Hijab Controversy

Hijab Controversy: NSCIA Talks Tough, Threatens Nationwide Protests

December 20, 2017 ZTF

The umbrella body of Nigerian muslims, the Nigerian Supreme Council for Islamic Affairs (NSCIA), has responded to the current hijab controversy rocking the Nigerian Law School.

In a statement sent on Tuesday morning, the Deputy Secretary General of the organisation, Salisu Shehu, a professor, accused the Nigerian Law School of lawlessness and Islamophobia.

The group threatened nationwide protest and a fierce legal action should the law school fail to rescind its decision not to call the affected graduate, Firdaus Amosa, to the bar.

“There is no doubt that Abdulsalam Firdaos Amosa has been victimized, humiliated and traumatised by the Nigerian Law School, the Body of Benchers and the Council for Legal Education on account of her faith,” the statement said.

“She has been denied of rightfully joining her professional colleagues just because of her religion. She has been exposed to ridicule and opprobrium by standing for her religious rights. It begs the question that she is not the only Muslim lady among those concerned as no one will stand for her when she appears before her Creator to defend the correctness and otherwise of her actions. We reiterate that she has not violated any law.

“The NSCIA demands that the Federal Government, through the Ministry of Justice, call the Council for Legal Education and the Nigerian Law School to order so that they will not stoke religious crisis in the country.

“Our Council patiently waits for what the Ministry will do as it puts other options on the table including litigation and nation-wide protests.

“Those who think they can ride roughshod on the rights of Muslims just because their co-Christian colonialists did it successfully will have to wake up and realise that Muslims are equal stakeholders in this country.”

READ FULL STATEMENT BELOW:

STOP PRESS! HIJAB IS CONSTITUTIONAL
On the 13th of December, 2017, a young female Nigerian graduate of Law, Miss Abdulsalam Firdaus Amosa, was prevented from joining her colleagues for the momentous call to bar ceremony at the International Conference Centre, Abuja. Her only offence was that she wore a hijab under her wig. For this unpardonable ‘crime’, as it was deemed, she was wrongfully denied the opportunity of being called to the Nigerian bar as Barrister and Solicitor of the Supreme Court of Nigeria with her colleagues though she had passed all her exams both at the University and the Nigerian Law School.

The Nigerian Supreme Council for Islamic Affairs (NSCIA) views this unsavoury development with grave concern. It is the height of Islamophobia displayed by the authorities of the Nigerian Law School, the Body of Benchers and the Council for Legal Education who now willfully break the law. This is very unfortunate and shameful because those who are supposed to be teaching justice and fairness now fail woefully to be just and fair. With or without sentiments, by refusing to expose her hair in public contrary to her religious injunctions, Miss Abdulsalam has not broken any law. No law is superior to the Nigerian Constitution which is the grundnorm of Nigeria.

Basically, the Constitution of the Federal Republic of Nigeria guarantees Nigerians their freedom of religion. There is a constitutional basis that holds and upholds the use of hijab as a fundamental and constitutional right of Muslims in this country. According to Section 38, Subsection 1 of the Nigerian Constitution (as amended in 2011), “Every person shall be entitled to freedom of thought, conscience and religion…(either alone or in community with others, and in public or in private) to manifest and propagate his religion or belief in worship, teaching, practice and observance”. Therefore, without equivocation, the constitutionality of hijab is incontrovertible.

Besides, there are many instances of judicial pronouncements on the unconstitutionality of denying Muslim ladies the right of using hijab. For instance, in suit no ID/424M/20004 concerning Abidemi Rasaq & ors V. Commissioner of Health, Lagos State, the Lagos State High Court ruled that a circular of the Lagos State School of Health Technology banning students from wearing hijab is unconstitutional. Similarly, in suit no CA/IL/49/2009 involving the Provost Kwara State College of Education Ilorin V. Basirat Saliu, the Appellate Court ruled that the use of hijab by female Muslims qualifies as a fundamental right under Section 38 of the Constitution.

It beggars belief that the Islamophobic posturing of the Nigerian Christian establishment is legendary even if this dates back to the Christian colonial past and its vestiges. The hatred for Muslims and Islam appears to be a virulent cancer that has spread across the body of those who use religion to oppress and deprive others of their religious rights.

For a country that has a majority Muslim population that is fully conscious of the grounds it had lost due to the Christian colonial rule and cultural imposition of the past, taking a lot of infractions against Muslims is not borne out of docility. The dignified taciturnity of Muslims in the face of oppression in Nigeria is borne out of the premium Islam places on mutual co-existence and peaceful living.

Those who make false appeals to the “secular” nature of Nigeria when the issue of Muslim rights is raised are guilty of paranoia, hypocrisy and myopia. We have maintained that Nigeria is a multi-religious country and that cannot be controverted. Those who are quick to drop the “secular” verbiage can afford to be flippant because the Christian system violently imposed on Nigeria by the colonial masters adequately provides for and serves their interests, certainly not the interest of Muslims.

While religious rights are being granted without any ado in countries where Muslims constitute negligible minorities in America, Europe and other parts of Africa, it is unspeakably ludicrous that Muslims are being denied, debased and violated in a country where they constitute a sizeable chunk of the population. It is the height of intolerance that rational and objective Nigerians know that any time Muslims demand their constitutional rights which the Christian colonial system had stripped them of, the infantile, reactionary and vociferous elements within the Nigerian elite and their brainwashed followers always cry wolf where none exists.

In the United States, female Muslim attorneys are granted their use of hijab as a piece of scarf on the head of a person doesn’t harm anyone. In Britain, where the Nigeria legal system originates from, the English lawyers and judges since July this year have started to break away from the centuries-old tradition of horse-air wigs that many consider anachronistic, uncomfortable and expensive.

While the rest of the world is becoming progressive and pluralistic, the Nigerian religious bigots remain dogmatic, vicious and vindictive when issues concerning Islam arise.

By the way, there is even no sense in the obduracy of the wigs just like other costumes or uniforms that Nigerians willfully use to oppress one another in certain professions. Writing on the wigs, the Independent newspaper of the United Kingdom in a report published on September 18, 2017 noted that “they are so old-fashioned, and so uncomfortable that even British barristers have stopped wearing them.”

Our Nigerian Law School would rather be glued to the archaic tradition of the colonial past being jettisoned by the British themselves and punish a second upper graduate for wearing a headscarf that the Nigerian Constitution guarantees her than toe the path of rationality. Who legislated on professional attires that we cannot question when such attires are inconsistent with our values?

There is no doubt that Abdulsalam Firdaos Amosa has been victimized, humiliated and traumatised by the Nigerian Law School, the Body of Benchers and the Council for Legal Education on account of her faith. She has been denied of rightfully joining her professional colleagues just because of her religion. She has been exposed to ridicule and opprobrium by standing for her religious rights. It begs the question that she is not the only Muslim lady among those concerned as no one will stand for her when she appears before her Creator to defend the correctness and otherwise of her actions. We reiterate that she has not violated any law.

The NSCIA demands that the Federal Government, through the Ministry of Justice, call the Council for Legal Education and the Nigerian Law School to order so that they will not stoke religious crisis in the country. Our Council patiently waits for what the Ministry will do as it puts other options on the table including litigation and nation-wide protests.

Those who think they can ride roughshod on the rights of Muslims just because their co-Christian colonialists did it successfully will have to wake up and realise that Muslims are equal stakeholders in this country.

That the United States of America allows even female military personnel to use hijab and male Muslims to grow their beard as part of their religious rights is worthy of note. If Muslim female police officers in Britain that so desire use hijab without let or hindrance, what is the problem in Nigeria? What is wrong with the Islamophobic Nigerians who assume that Muslims must abandon their religion to co-exist with them in the Nigerian space? How does wearing hijab infringe on anybody’s right in Nigeria? Enough is enough of this chronic hatred and bigoted intolerance! Yours is your religion and ours is ours.

For long, the Council has maintained its calm on issues concerning Muslims even when the victims are presented as oppressors. Some Christian leaders in this country misinformed President Muhammadu Buhari that his appointments were lopsided against them. We join them to call on Mr President to urgently examine the religious composition of his cabinet and other appointees with a view to determining the religious affiliations and rectifying the obvious imbalance against Islam. We insist that the assessment should also cover staff members of Ministries, Departments and Agencies, with Permanent Secretaries, Chief Executives, Board Members and Directors religiously profiled as they are now so that the picture of those who dominate others will be seen. We demand that this should be done with the result of the findings published. Muslims are neither blind nor unconscious of the undue advantage being accorded Christianity in public space but are alarmed that Islam is being falsely accused of domination.

Muslims have been groaning quietly in this country under the suffocating domination of our intolerant partners. The capacity to endure pains however has a limit. We endure a skewed and unbalanced system that grants Christians the right of worship without any hindrance on Sunday whereas some bigots would not grant their subordinates the concession to pray for just one hour on Friday. We condone the systematic subjugation of Muslims in the South, where Governors build big churches and cathedrals with public funds and air their banality on the television without any noise from the media. Yet, when a Muslim Governor is sighted in the mosque, the hypocrites would scream as if the unusual has happened.

When Nigerians chose to adopt the Red Cross, there was no whimper from Muslims but joining the Organisation of Islamic Conference (OIC) has been turned to a big issue by our noisy fellow Nigerians. Muslims remained calm when Nigeria sent an ambassador to the Vatican, even if the one in Italy could have been sufficient.

The mosques in the South are being demolished within and outside institutions of higher learning while Muslim minorities in the North like those of Tafawa Balewa in Bauchi State (just because the name will ring a bell) are banished from their communities by Christian militias. Court of Appeal granted the rights of Muslim students to build a mosque in the River State University of Science and Technilogy (RSUST) but they are denied till today while the vibrant Press remain silent.

Yet, Christians who make deliberate incursions into the heart of the North and dominate the socio-economic space there are quick to shout marginalisation just for the sake of attention. Crying wolf where none exists or raising a storm in a tea cup has been the official stance of CAN just because the media they use grew from the Church and are largely within their control.

This is last straw to break the camel’s back and it will be difficult for the Council to persuade Nigerian Muslims from taking these serial injustices against them again! Those whose stock-in-trade is to provoke Muslims by denying them of their God-given and constitutionally guaranteed rights should turn a new leaf. We are all Nigerians and we say enough of enough of Islamophobia and anti-Islamic bigotry!

We stand behind Abdulsalam Firdaos Amosa who acted within her constitutional rights and we insist that she must be called to the Bar and adequately compensated for the humiliation she was subjected to. Enough is enough!

Prof Salisu Shehu
Deputy Secretary General
NSCIA

Wednesday, 20 December 2017

key to a good relationship


Almost everyone knows that old-fashioned people created and still

follow different rules of a happy marriage. We should take into

account that couples and epochs are different, so some people find

these rules fundamental and suitable while others have a blurred

vision of the traditions set by our ancestors. Nowadays many couples

break these rules and live perfectly happy. Check out the list of 9 old-

fashioned marriage principles you can break today.

1. Always sleep together

Nowadays many lovely couples have to sleep in separate due to

different reasons. Do not feel upset if you face such a thing because

it’s not a signal of your love end. Just enjoy the possibility to sleep

separately like you did it being a kid. Try to revive new feelings and

spend more time together.

2. Fights lead to divorce

It often happens that a set of unresolved dilemmas can lead to

divorce. It seems to be silly when couples think about divorce having

various disputes. There are a lot of ways to resolve problems and

tiffs, the main point is to have a desire to be together. You are to

stand this grinding period to check the strength of your love. Don’t be

afraid to sort out difficulties in your relationship because it’s a

healthy thing.

3. Vacation together

Sometimes vacations apart can give a new portion of inspiration and

strengthen your love. Women and men have different visions and

nature, so sometimes it’s necessary to have a girl’s weekend or a

boy’s one. Not to feel lonely, try to have a separate vacation at the

same period. And remember that every person should have its own

space and individual time and it’s not a betrayal.

4. Mutual hobbies

When you are in a relationship, it’s not necessary to have only

common hobbies. As we know, tastes differ, so you just can talk about

your hobbies and share emotions. It’s marvelous if your interests are

the same and you have mutual hobbies. Don’t force each other, if you

don’t want to make your relationship strained

5. Don’t go to bed angry

Don’t go to bed angry

Fighting negative emotions isn’t an easy thing, especially when they

attack your mind in the evening. To my mind, bedtime is the most

productive period of time when different thoughts fill out your

conscience and bring on anger. Don’t keep it serious and try to cheer

each other up.

6. The honesty vow

Being completely honest seems to be impossible, but it doesn’t mean

that you should be a liar. Telling the truth all the time is noble, but it

can hurt your feelings. You may dislike his hairdo, elements of style

or other nonsignificant things and it’s not necessary to say him about

them all the time, because it’s a high way to a new tiff. It’s normal to

commit little lies, but don’t do the same with more important things

and try not to get a habit of a liar.

Keep things exciting

7. People often talk that it’s necessary to jazz up the relationship every

now and then. Sure, it’s great to try something new, but not every

day. We need to get used to new things, actions. That’s why routines

can be useful in a way, because it is necessary to get rid of constant

stresses caused by trying something new. Bucking your relationship

up is necessary, but with reasonable limits.

8. It’s over when the spark dies

It’s over when the spark dies

Typically, relationship starts with a spark and this fire burns forever.

Being charmed by our love, we try to keep it burning by all means.

Don’t be afraid of moments when your love seems to be lost. It is just

necessary to open a new page in the book of your relationship.

9. Avoid opposite sex friends

It’s okay to have opposite sex friends. When you have such friends,

you become all-rounded and it’s not a sign that you are looking for

romance. Many friends of mine have opposite sex friends and it

seems to be widespread today. In case you and your guy are very

jealous, you can get acquainted with your mutual friends and spend

time together.

We are free to break rules because they don’t have direct risks to

influence on your relationship in a negative way. Just love each other

and don’t get caught in an endless loop of old-fashioned rules. Which

old-fashioned marriage rule have you already broken?

 

Relationship


 I welcome you all to this great interactive segment that can change the way we feel about LOVE. Relation is not about getting the right person but creating a meaningful and beautiful environment with that lucking person in your heart.....that is the way I feel it.....I usman Jibril will like to share a little story of my life with you...

I was waiting for a right girl, who shall have all the quantity that I wanted in a woman....until a very great day in my life when a friend of mine called me and asked for exact reason why there was nobody in my life, I share my opinion with him(in which I believed it was a great Idea), after our discussion, he taught me a beautiful lesson...that I can never forget in my life which was meaningful and has a great impact in my love life till movement....

According to him, you can never have every qualities in a woman but you can marry someone who will listen and ready to bend to your demand if you make her understand....she will bend to your demands and probably change to what you dreamt of, then you shall have everything more than your demand....

I want to ask you this simple question....WHY DO PEOPLE GO IN A RELATION JUST FOR SEX MOTIVE....why do people get two girls when one is more than perfect?????

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         People get themselves in this kind of relationship simply because they are ignorant, lack of knowledge about LOVE and they are no ready to change because they enjoying having fun around and counting numbers of girls they have slept with just like a scrabble game.  People enjoying having affair with different girls because of;

1. Lack of trust: Nobody now aday can trust their partner 100%. Even If they want to try t it always seem impossible. They want to take revenge on new girl believing that no girl is trustworthy or no man worthy sacrifice for. No matter how hard their partner try to impress them, another beautiful girl will still be ringing on their mind, vice visa.

2. Motive: People get in relationship for different reasons, a girl or man find themselves in relationship for money, materials or family status, if a guy knew this motive, they will only want to taste their body, and place them as second in their heart until they find the real one.

3. Vision: if  relationship lack vision, all we think of is enjoy having all fun today, we dont talk about future, no plan of tomorrow, and a partner get priviledge of this act elsewhere he or she will prefer to have an affair with new partner.

4. Game: Everyone now a day see love as a game, everyone want to play this game and it makes them have plenty partners as to make the game sweet.

These ideas need to be changed, start thinking of building a great future with that lucking and wonderful girl or man in your heart.    

 

          All these ideas in the article above is directly from my heart...(usman jibril). Please Check the next chapter...... My believe in this chapter is that, you are ready to have a great relationship now and your initial ideas have been touched.

Must do in love

MUST DO IN LOVE AND MARRIAGE
SEX SEX SEX VOLUME1
This is for all the married women out there and
to all the good women who wished to get
married!!!
Marital Sex is not a sin! Never Permit Your
Husband To Sleep Around; He’s Only
Permitted To Sleep Around You! Never allow
his secretary to take your position! Give him
enough sex! Dress seductively for your
husband! If you are alone in the house put on
skimpy dresses, sexy under wears; dress to kill
him
at home before a strange woman kill
him outside! Stop tying wrapper round your
waist, it makes you look like a village woman!
Dress up in front of him! Walk naked in front
of him! Have you read that “They were naked
and were not ashamed?” He is your husband for
God sake! Don’t be ashamed to flirt with
your husband! Bath together! Eat together!
Play
together! Get involved in kissing, massaging,
fondling! Make it a habit to sleep without
panties except during menstruation. Invite him
for
a sex filled night! Tell him you will win him
on bed today! Make it a habit to communicate
with him about your sex life! Be creative!
Do different style that’s convenient for both of
you!It is not a sin! Appreciate him as you make
love together, never keep quiet as if your mouth
is
pad lock!=DDon’t lie down like a dead
wood and tell him to hurry up! No man will
love to have a”bedroom failure” as a wife!

Sunday, 17 December 2017

Youngelite Quran

Allah is Pure and Only Accept what is Pure
On the authority of Abu Hurairah (radiAllaahu ‘anhu) who said: The Messenger of Allah (sallAllaahu alayhi wa sallam) said
Allah the Almighty is Pure and accepts only that which is pure. And verily Allah has commanded the Believers to do that which He has commanded the Messengers. So the Almighty has said
“O (you) Messengers! Eat of the Tayyibaat [all kinds of Halaal (legal) foods], and perform righteous deeds.” [Al Mu’minun 23:51]
and the Almighty has said
“O you who believe! Eat of the lawful things that We have provided you” [Al Baqarah 2:172]
Then he mentioned [the case] of a man who, having journeyed far, is dishevelled and dusty, and who spreads out his hands to the sky saying “O Lord! O Lord!”, while his food is Haraam (unlawful), his drink is Haraam, his clothing is Haraam, and he has been nourished with Haraam, so how can [his supplication] be answered ?! [Narrated by Bukhari and Muslim.]

Allah is Pure
Pure in this connotation denotes that Allah is Holy – Al Qudoos, free from all deficiencies and flaws.
Allah use the word tayyib in a few different context in the quran.
Speech that is good and pure while the wicked is impure. Allah uses the word Tayyib to describe good.
26. bad statements are for bad people (or bad women for bad men) and bad people for bad. An Nur 24: 26
24. see You not How Allâh sets forth a parable? – a goodly word as a goodly tree, whose root is firmly fixed, and its branches (reach) to the sky (i.e. very high). Ibrahim 14: 24
10. Whosoever desires honour, power and Glory Then to Allâh belong All honour, power and Glory [and one can get honour, power and Glory Only by obeying and worshipping Allâh (Alone)]. to Him ascend (all) the goodly words, and the righteous deeds exalt it (the goodly Words i.e. the goodly Words are not accepted by Allâh unless and until they are followed by good deeds), but those who plot evils, Theirs will be Severe torment. and the plotting of such will perish. Fatir 35: 10
Allah also describes the Believers as pure. The word Tayyib here is used as pure or pious.
32. those whose lives the angels take while they are In a pious state (i.e. pure from All evil, and worshipping none but Allâh Alone) saying (to them): Salâmun ‘Alaikum (peace be on you) enter You Paradise, because of (the good) which You used to do (in the world).” An Nahl 16 : 32
Because of the faith in the believer’s heart, he is completely pure: his heart, his tongue, and his body. These are the fruits of faith.
Can you name the deeds that are pure done by the following organ?
heart
tongue
limbs
Allah only accepts from what is Pure and Lawful
Food that are Tayyib
The greatest ways in which a believer can achieve purity of deeds is by purity of his food, making sure it is from lawful sources. In both these verses (in the hadith) are Allah’s commands for us to eat things that are Tayyib – lawful.
Tayyib here means lawful. Lawful (in the context of food) means it is halal. In general one can eat anything unless it is stipulated as haram. And that is why it seems like in religion only haram things are discussed because there are plentiful of halal things to eat out there.
The haram food are
1. swine
2. Animal carcasses
3. Animals that are not slaughtered in the name of Allah
4. animals slaughtered on idolatrous altars
5. animals that we are not allowed to eat which hunt its prey using teeth and claws like dogs, cats and tigers.
6. Animals that are killed not by slaughtering – strangled, beaten, electrocuted and so forth.
Al Maidah 5: 3
Forbidden to You (for food) are: Al-Maytatah (the dead animals – cattle-beast not slaughtered), blood, the flesh of swine, and the meat of that which has been slaughtered as a sacrifice for others than Allâh, or has been slaughtered for idols, etc., or on which Allâh’s Name has not been mentioned while slaughtering, and that which has been killed by strangling, or by a violent blow, or by a headlong fall, or by the goring of horns – and that which has been (partly) eaten by a wild animal – unless You are Able to slaughter it (before its death) and that which is sacrificed (slaughtered) on AnNusub (stone altars). (Forbidden) also is to use arrows seeking luck or decision, (all) that is Fisqun (disobedience of Allâh and sin). This day, those who disbelieved have given up All hope of Your religion, so fear them not, but fear Me. This day, I have perfected Your Religion for you, completed My Favour upon you, and have chosen for You Islâm as Your religion. but as for Him who is forced by Severe hunger, with no inclination to sin (such can eat These above-mentioned meats), Then surely, Allâh is OftForgiving, Most Merciful.
7. Even halal food can become haram like fruits presented to idols such as the mandarin oranges put at the altar or the graves.
Let us ponder on this hadith
It is reported from Tariq Ibn Shihab (Radhi Allaahu Anhu) that the Prophet said:
“A man entered Paradise because of a fly, while another entered the Fire because of a fly.” They asked: “How was that possible, oh, Messenger of Allah ?” He replied: “Two men passed by a people who had an idol, which it was not permissible for anyone to pass without making a sacrifice to it. They (the people) said to the first man: “Sacrifice (something).” He said: “I have nothing with which to do so.” They said: “Sacrifice some-thing, even if it were only a fly,” and so he did so, and they allowed him to continue on his way and so he entered the Hell-fire. Then they said to the second man: “Sacrifice (something).” But he said: “I will not sacrifice anything unless it be to Allah , the Almighty, the All-powerful,” so they struck his neck (and he died) and entered Paradise.” (Narrated by Ahmad)
ix. Intoxication and drugs.
Intoxication and drugs (except for lawful use of medicine) is the mother of evils.

This indicates that eating what is lawful helps one to do righteous deeds. The Prophets, peace be upon them, did this in the most perfect manner, and did all kinds of good deeds in words, actions, guidance and advice. May Allah reward them with good on behalf of the people.
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Eating good food, when done intending obedience and in order to strengthen the body for carrying out one’s obligation, is thus rewarded by Allah
For as long as the food is lawful and the work is righteous, then the deeds be accepted.
Using Illegal Money
What is also haram food include the food that is bought using illegal money. Illegal money may come from stealing, or haram job, money out of lying, gambling money and so forth. Haram money brought to the home will be used to feed the family, he clothes they wear, the education they paid for, the medicine they bought and so forth. The whole life is built from haram.
If then, how can the supplications be accepted?
Ponder on this verse
27. and (O Muhammad ) recite to them (the Jews) the story of the two sons of Adam [Hâbil (Abel) and Qâbil (Cain)] In truth; when each offered a sacrifice (to Allâh), it was accepted from the one but not from the other. the latter said to the former: “I will surely kill you. ” the former said: “Verily, Allâh accepts Only from those who are Al-Muttaqûn (the pious – see V.2:2).” AlMaidah 5: 27
The Pious Predecessors used to fear for themselves from the implication of this verse that their deeds are not accepted by Allah. They pray for many months that their deeds in ramadhan is accepted. Whereas we are confident with our little worship. Astaghfirulah!
Charity out of ill gotten money is not acceptable.
Ibn Umar narrated that Prophet sallalahu alaihi wasalam said,
“Allah does not accept prayer that is not preceded by ablution, nor does He accept the charity given out of Ghulul (property taken from war booty before its distribution). (Muslim in Kitab At Taharah)
Summary
1. Eat lawful food
2. Take lawful earning
3. Deeds are accepted if one eats lawful food
4. Charity from haram is not accepted
Eating what is unlawful corrupts one deeds and prevents them from being accepted.
Allah commands His servants and Messengers, peace be upon them all, to eat lawful food and do righteous deeds.
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The Prophet sallallahu alaihi wasalam described the man who has travelled for a long period until he became unkempt and exhausted to illustrate a condition of hardship and humility during which response to supplication is most expected.
Prophet salllahu alaihi wasalam indicated the manners of supplication and the causes which bring to the response to it in this hadith. They are
1. Long journey
Narrated by Abu Hurayrah that the Prophet salllahualaihi wasalam said, “There are three whose supplication is answered without doubt: The supplication of the oppressed, the supplication of the traveler, and the supplication for the father od his son.” (Abu dawood in Kitab as Salah).
Bearing difficulties and dejection are some of the greatest causes for answer to supplication.
2. One’s clothes have become worn out, and his appearance is disheveled and dusty.
Prophet sallallahu alaihi wasalam said, “Many a person with disheveled hair (and dust coloured) is turned away from the doors (whereas Allah holds him in such high esteem) that if he were to swear by Allah, Allah would fulfill that for him. (Muslim in Kitab al Birr)
3. Raising one’s hand to the sky
Hadith of Salman, Prophet salllahu alaihi wasalam said, “Your Lord is magnificent and generous, and is ashamed to turn away empty the hands of His servant when he raises them to Him.”
Raising the hands in supplication was known to be the practice of the prophet salllahu alaihi wasalam. When he performed the prayer for rain, he raised his hands so high that ine could see the white of his armpit (Bukhary in Kitab Al Istisqa’). Also, when he besseched Allah for help against the polytheists during the Battle of Badr, he extended his arms such that his cloak fell of his shoulders. (Muslim in Kitab al Jihad was Siyar)
4. Pleading with Allah by repetitively remembering and metioning His Lordship. Using the supplication that are found in Quran, they areusually mentioned with the name of the Lord.
Other time that du’a is most maqbul. Tick what you can do most often.
1. The Last Third Of The Night
2. Late at night
3. Between Adhan and Iqamah
4. An Hour On Friday
5. While Drinking Zamzam Water
6. While Prostrating
7. When Waking Up at Night
8. The Night Of ‘Qadr’ (Decree)
9. During The Rain
10. The One Who Is Suffering Injustice and Opression
11. The Traveler
12. The Parent’s Supplication for their Child
13. Dua after praising Allah and giving salat on the Prophet (SAW) in the tashahhud at the end of salat.
14. The dua of a Muslim for his absent brother or sister Muslim stemming from the heart.
15. Dua on the Day of Arafat
16. Dua during the month of Ramadan
17. Dua when the Armies meet
18. When Muslims gather for the purpose of invoking and remembering Allah (Dhikrullah).
19. First Ten days of Dhul-Hijjah
20. Dua when the heart reaches out to Allah and is ready to be totally sincere
21. Dua of people after the death of a person
22. Dua of the one fasting until he breaks his fast.
23. Dua of the one fasting at the time of breaking fast
24. Dua of a just Ruler
25. Dua of a son or daughter obedient to his or her parents
26. Dua immediately after wudu
27. Dua after stoning the Jamarat at Hajj
28. At the Crowing of a Rooster
29. Du’a made inside the Ka’bah
30. Du’a on the mount of Safa or Marwah during Umrah or Hajj
31. Dua at any of the holy sites.
32. While reciting Surah al-Fatihah
33. Saying ‘Ameen’ during prayer
34. While visiting the sick, and dua made by the sick
Prophet sallallahu alaihi wasalam indicated what prevents the supplication from being answered which are delving into the unlawful whether from food, drink, clothes or nutrition.
If we study the description of the man, we can perhaps infer that the man may be on his journey for hajj and jihad – the greatest deed in the sight of Allah.
Yet, in spite of that, there remains a preventative factor when the person calls Allah: his unworthiness due to prolonged consumption of haram.
However, Allah does answer the supplication of the disobedient person. In fact He did answer the supplication one of the greatest disbeliever. Do you know who it is?
What did he supplicate for?
Al Aaraf 7:14-15.
14. (Iblîs) said: “Allow Me respite till the Day they are raised up (i.e. the Day of Resurrection).”
15. (Allâh) said: “You are of those allowed respite.”
Al Hijr 15: 37
36. [Iblîs (Satan)] said: “O My Lord! give Me Then respite till the Day they (the dead) will be resurrected.”
37. Allâh said: “Then, Verily, You are of those reprieved,
Al Saad 38: 80
79. [Iblîs (Satan)] said: “My Lord! give Me Then respite till the Day the (dead) are resurrected.”
80. (Allâh) said: “Verily! You are of those allowed respite
Allah also answers the supplication of the disbelievers even though they are not asking from Him. However, what Allah gives to them in this world now is insignificant compared to what Allah will give to the believers in yaumul akhirah. He answers the supplication due to His great wisdom and his infinite Grace and Kindness and Generosity. Allaah knows best.
This hadith, should make us alert that if one persists on consuming what is haram, they should not expect Allah’s aid and that response to his supplication is most likely until he repents from the sin.
Allah Is Pure
Allah is pure and except only what is pure. He only accepts the pure ones to enter in Jannah. The pure ones are the one who does good deeds (Amal soleh) and among the righteous (soleh).
The word ﺻﻠﺢ is usually translated as righteous. It actually carries the meaning of rectification, and being worthy or suitable, etc.
If you notice in one of the morning adzkar,
ﻳﺎﺣـﻲ ﻳﺎ ﻗـﻴـﻮﻡ، ﺑـﺮﺣﻤـﺘﻚ
ﺍﺳﺘـﻐـﻴﺚ،
ﺍﺻﻠـﺢ
ﻟﻲ ﺵَ ـﺎﻧـﻲ ِ
، ﻭﻻ ﺗﻜﻠـﻨﻲ ﺍﻟﻰ ﻧﻔـﺴﻲ ﻃـﺮﻓﺔ ﻋـﻴﻦ
O You Who is Everliving and Sustains and Protects everything, I seek assistance through the means of your mercy, rectify for me all my affairs and do not leave me to myself, even for the blink of an eye.
The word aslih ﺃﺻﻠﺢ is translated as Rectify.
Then we have the word amilus solihat ﻋَﻤِﻠُﻮﺍْ ﭐﻟﺼَّـٰﻠِﺤَـٰﺖِ
solihat is ﺻﺎﻟﺤﺎﺕ
this is derived from the word ﺻﻠﺢ
ﻭَﻋَﻤِﻠُﻮﺍْ ﭐﻟﺼَّـٰﻠِﺤَـٰﺖِ – amilus solihat is translated as good deeds.
Why Allah calls it solihat – because the deeds make them proper and good. The deeds are to correct and rectify the person. It makes them good and rectify the worldly affair and akhirat.
What it also means is doing deed that will rectify you so that you become among the solihin (ﺻﺎﻟﻴﺤﻴﻦ ). The soleh people (solihin is the plural for soleh) are the people who did deeds that rectified them and they become those who are rectified or those who are worthy because they are rectified.
Becomes worthy for what? Rectified and only then will be ﻳﺼﻠﺢ suitable/ worthy/ fit to be among Ar Rahman in His Jannah.
Jannah is only for the one who is rectified and had taqwa and did deeds that rectified them and made them worthy.
Allah only accepts those who are pure and they are from people who do righteous deeds.
Lessons
In this hadith the importance of avoiding the unlawful is emphasized. And this is one of those ahaadeeth upon which the Principles and Rulings of Islaam are built. It teaches that whoever expects his deeds to be accepted by Allah must not pollute them with something unlawful. A person who would like his supplications be answered by Allah should take care to consume only what is lawful. And that whosoever wishes to supplicate to Allaah should humble and submit himself before his Lord with that which is Halaal.
That Allaah accepts only that which is good
That every believer is obliged to do that which the Messengers were obliged to do (except what is specifically exempted)
That every Muslim must eat only Halaal and must take great care that he has avoided eating whatever he knew to be Haraam or suspicious
That performing righteous deeds is waajib for every one of us
That frequently we turn to Allaah for help while we do not try to eat, drink, maintain ourselves and earn in a pure way
That if we do not take care of the above then our prayers will not be effective
That it is correct to raise ones hands while asking Allaah for something
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