Relationship

 I welcome you all to this great interactive segment that can change the way we feel about LOVE. Relation is not about getting the right person but creating a meaningful and beautiful environment with that lucking person in your heart.....that is the way I feel it.....I usman Jibril will like to share a little story of my life with you...

I was waiting for a right girl, who shall have all the quantity that I wanted in a woman....until a very great day in my life when a friend of mine called me and asked for exact reason why there was nobody in my life, I share my opinion with him(in which I believed it was a great Idea), after our discussion, he taught me a beautiful lesson...that I can never forget in my life which was meaningful and has a great impact in my love life till movement....

According to him, you can never have every qualities in a woman but you can marry someone who will listen and ready to bend to your demand if you make her understand....she will bend to your demands and probably change to what you dreamt of, then you shall have everything more than your demand....

I want to ask you this simple question....WHY DO PEOPLE GO IN A RELATION JUST FOR SEX MOTIVE....why do people get two girls when one is more than perfect?????

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         People get themselves in this kind of relationship simply because they are ignorant, lack of knowledge about LOVE and they are no ready to change because they enjoying having fun around and counting numbers of girls they have slept with just like a scrabble game.  People enjoying having affair with different girls because of;

1. Lack of trust: Nobody now aday can trust their partner 100%. Even If they want to try t it always seem impossible. They want to take revenge on new girl believing that no girl is trustworthy or no man worthy sacrifice for. No matter how hard their partner try to impress them, another beautiful girl will still be ringing on their mind, vice visa.

2. Motive: People get in relationship for different reasons, a girl or man find themselves in relationship for money, materials or family status, if a guy knew this motive, they will only want to taste their body, and place them as second in their heart until they find the real one.

3. Vision: if  relationship lack vision, all we think of is enjoy having all fun today, we dont talk about future, no plan of tomorrow, and a partner get priviledge of this act elsewhere he or she will prefer to have an affair with new partner.

4. Game: Everyone now a day see love as a game, everyone want to play this game and it makes them have plenty partners as to make the game sweet.

These ideas need to be changed, start thinking of building a great future with that lucking and wonderful girl or man in your heart.    

 

          All these ideas in the article above is directly from my heart...(usman jibril). Please Check the next chapter...... My believe in this chapter is that, you are ready to have a great relationship now and your initial ideas have been touched.