Thursday, 21 December 2017

Hijab Controversy

Hijab Controversy: NSCIA Talks Tough, Threatens Nationwide Protests

December 20, 2017 ZTF

The umbrella body of Nigerian muslims, the Nigerian Supreme Council for Islamic Affairs (NSCIA), has responded to the current hijab controversy rocking the Nigerian Law School.

In a statement sent on Tuesday morning, the Deputy Secretary General of the organisation, Salisu Shehu, a professor, accused the Nigerian Law School of lawlessness and Islamophobia.

The group threatened nationwide protest and a fierce legal action should the law school fail to rescind its decision not to call the affected graduate, Firdaus Amosa, to the bar.

“There is no doubt that Abdulsalam Firdaos Amosa has been victimized, humiliated and traumatised by the Nigerian Law School, the Body of Benchers and the Council for Legal Education on account of her faith,” the statement said.

“She has been denied of rightfully joining her professional colleagues just because of her religion. She has been exposed to ridicule and opprobrium by standing for her religious rights. It begs the question that she is not the only Muslim lady among those concerned as no one will stand for her when she appears before her Creator to defend the correctness and otherwise of her actions. We reiterate that she has not violated any law.

“The NSCIA demands that the Federal Government, through the Ministry of Justice, call the Council for Legal Education and the Nigerian Law School to order so that they will not stoke religious crisis in the country.

“Our Council patiently waits for what the Ministry will do as it puts other options on the table including litigation and nation-wide protests.

“Those who think they can ride roughshod on the rights of Muslims just because their co-Christian colonialists did it successfully will have to wake up and realise that Muslims are equal stakeholders in this country.”

READ FULL STATEMENT BELOW:

STOP PRESS! HIJAB IS CONSTITUTIONAL
On the 13th of December, 2017, a young female Nigerian graduate of Law, Miss Abdulsalam Firdaus Amosa, was prevented from joining her colleagues for the momentous call to bar ceremony at the International Conference Centre, Abuja. Her only offence was that she wore a hijab under her wig. For this unpardonable ‘crime’, as it was deemed, she was wrongfully denied the opportunity of being called to the Nigerian bar as Barrister and Solicitor of the Supreme Court of Nigeria with her colleagues though she had passed all her exams both at the University and the Nigerian Law School.

The Nigerian Supreme Council for Islamic Affairs (NSCIA) views this unsavoury development with grave concern. It is the height of Islamophobia displayed by the authorities of the Nigerian Law School, the Body of Benchers and the Council for Legal Education who now willfully break the law. This is very unfortunate and shameful because those who are supposed to be teaching justice and fairness now fail woefully to be just and fair. With or without sentiments, by refusing to expose her hair in public contrary to her religious injunctions, Miss Abdulsalam has not broken any law. No law is superior to the Nigerian Constitution which is the grundnorm of Nigeria.

Basically, the Constitution of the Federal Republic of Nigeria guarantees Nigerians their freedom of religion. There is a constitutional basis that holds and upholds the use of hijab as a fundamental and constitutional right of Muslims in this country. According to Section 38, Subsection 1 of the Nigerian Constitution (as amended in 2011), “Every person shall be entitled to freedom of thought, conscience and religion…(either alone or in community with others, and in public or in private) to manifest and propagate his religion or belief in worship, teaching, practice and observance”. Therefore, without equivocation, the constitutionality of hijab is incontrovertible.

Besides, there are many instances of judicial pronouncements on the unconstitutionality of denying Muslim ladies the right of using hijab. For instance, in suit no ID/424M/20004 concerning Abidemi Rasaq & ors V. Commissioner of Health, Lagos State, the Lagos State High Court ruled that a circular of the Lagos State School of Health Technology banning students from wearing hijab is unconstitutional. Similarly, in suit no CA/IL/49/2009 involving the Provost Kwara State College of Education Ilorin V. Basirat Saliu, the Appellate Court ruled that the use of hijab by female Muslims qualifies as a fundamental right under Section 38 of the Constitution.

It beggars belief that the Islamophobic posturing of the Nigerian Christian establishment is legendary even if this dates back to the Christian colonial past and its vestiges. The hatred for Muslims and Islam appears to be a virulent cancer that has spread across the body of those who use religion to oppress and deprive others of their religious rights.

For a country that has a majority Muslim population that is fully conscious of the grounds it had lost due to the Christian colonial rule and cultural imposition of the past, taking a lot of infractions against Muslims is not borne out of docility. The dignified taciturnity of Muslims in the face of oppression in Nigeria is borne out of the premium Islam places on mutual co-existence and peaceful living.

Those who make false appeals to the “secular” nature of Nigeria when the issue of Muslim rights is raised are guilty of paranoia, hypocrisy and myopia. We have maintained that Nigeria is a multi-religious country and that cannot be controverted. Those who are quick to drop the “secular” verbiage can afford to be flippant because the Christian system violently imposed on Nigeria by the colonial masters adequately provides for and serves their interests, certainly not the interest of Muslims.

While religious rights are being granted without any ado in countries where Muslims constitute negligible minorities in America, Europe and other parts of Africa, it is unspeakably ludicrous that Muslims are being denied, debased and violated in a country where they constitute a sizeable chunk of the population. It is the height of intolerance that rational and objective Nigerians know that any time Muslims demand their constitutional rights which the Christian colonial system had stripped them of, the infantile, reactionary and vociferous elements within the Nigerian elite and their brainwashed followers always cry wolf where none exists.

In the United States, female Muslim attorneys are granted their use of hijab as a piece of scarf on the head of a person doesn’t harm anyone. In Britain, where the Nigeria legal system originates from, the English lawyers and judges since July this year have started to break away from the centuries-old tradition of horse-air wigs that many consider anachronistic, uncomfortable and expensive.

While the rest of the world is becoming progressive and pluralistic, the Nigerian religious bigots remain dogmatic, vicious and vindictive when issues concerning Islam arise.

By the way, there is even no sense in the obduracy of the wigs just like other costumes or uniforms that Nigerians willfully use to oppress one another in certain professions. Writing on the wigs, the Independent newspaper of the United Kingdom in a report published on September 18, 2017 noted that “they are so old-fashioned, and so uncomfortable that even British barristers have stopped wearing them.”

Our Nigerian Law School would rather be glued to the archaic tradition of the colonial past being jettisoned by the British themselves and punish a second upper graduate for wearing a headscarf that the Nigerian Constitution guarantees her than toe the path of rationality. Who legislated on professional attires that we cannot question when such attires are inconsistent with our values?

There is no doubt that Abdulsalam Firdaos Amosa has been victimized, humiliated and traumatised by the Nigerian Law School, the Body of Benchers and the Council for Legal Education on account of her faith. She has been denied of rightfully joining her professional colleagues just because of her religion. She has been exposed to ridicule and opprobrium by standing for her religious rights. It begs the question that she is not the only Muslim lady among those concerned as no one will stand for her when she appears before her Creator to defend the correctness and otherwise of her actions. We reiterate that she has not violated any law.

The NSCIA demands that the Federal Government, through the Ministry of Justice, call the Council for Legal Education and the Nigerian Law School to order so that they will not stoke religious crisis in the country. Our Council patiently waits for what the Ministry will do as it puts other options on the table including litigation and nation-wide protests.

Those who think they can ride roughshod on the rights of Muslims just because their co-Christian colonialists did it successfully will have to wake up and realise that Muslims are equal stakeholders in this country.

That the United States of America allows even female military personnel to use hijab and male Muslims to grow their beard as part of their religious rights is worthy of note. If Muslim female police officers in Britain that so desire use hijab without let or hindrance, what is the problem in Nigeria? What is wrong with the Islamophobic Nigerians who assume that Muslims must abandon their religion to co-exist with them in the Nigerian space? How does wearing hijab infringe on anybody’s right in Nigeria? Enough is enough of this chronic hatred and bigoted intolerance! Yours is your religion and ours is ours.

For long, the Council has maintained its calm on issues concerning Muslims even when the victims are presented as oppressors. Some Christian leaders in this country misinformed President Muhammadu Buhari that his appointments were lopsided against them. We join them to call on Mr President to urgently examine the religious composition of his cabinet and other appointees with a view to determining the religious affiliations and rectifying the obvious imbalance against Islam. We insist that the assessment should also cover staff members of Ministries, Departments and Agencies, with Permanent Secretaries, Chief Executives, Board Members and Directors religiously profiled as they are now so that the picture of those who dominate others will be seen. We demand that this should be done with the result of the findings published. Muslims are neither blind nor unconscious of the undue advantage being accorded Christianity in public space but are alarmed that Islam is being falsely accused of domination.

Muslims have been groaning quietly in this country under the suffocating domination of our intolerant partners. The capacity to endure pains however has a limit. We endure a skewed and unbalanced system that grants Christians the right of worship without any hindrance on Sunday whereas some bigots would not grant their subordinates the concession to pray for just one hour on Friday. We condone the systematic subjugation of Muslims in the South, where Governors build big churches and cathedrals with public funds and air their banality on the television without any noise from the media. Yet, when a Muslim Governor is sighted in the mosque, the hypocrites would scream as if the unusual has happened.

When Nigerians chose to adopt the Red Cross, there was no whimper from Muslims but joining the Organisation of Islamic Conference (OIC) has been turned to a big issue by our noisy fellow Nigerians. Muslims remained calm when Nigeria sent an ambassador to the Vatican, even if the one in Italy could have been sufficient.

The mosques in the South are being demolished within and outside institutions of higher learning while Muslim minorities in the North like those of Tafawa Balewa in Bauchi State (just because the name will ring a bell) are banished from their communities by Christian militias. Court of Appeal granted the rights of Muslim students to build a mosque in the River State University of Science and Technilogy (RSUST) but they are denied till today while the vibrant Press remain silent.

Yet, Christians who make deliberate incursions into the heart of the North and dominate the socio-economic space there are quick to shout marginalisation just for the sake of attention. Crying wolf where none exists or raising a storm in a tea cup has been the official stance of CAN just because the media they use grew from the Church and are largely within their control.

This is last straw to break the camel’s back and it will be difficult for the Council to persuade Nigerian Muslims from taking these serial injustices against them again! Those whose stock-in-trade is to provoke Muslims by denying them of their God-given and constitutionally guaranteed rights should turn a new leaf. We are all Nigerians and we say enough of enough of Islamophobia and anti-Islamic bigotry!

We stand behind Abdulsalam Firdaos Amosa who acted within her constitutional rights and we insist that she must be called to the Bar and adequately compensated for the humiliation she was subjected to. Enough is enough!

Prof Salisu Shehu
Deputy Secretary General
NSCIA

Wednesday, 20 December 2017

key to a good relationship


Almost everyone knows that old-fashioned people created and still

follow different rules of a happy marriage. We should take into

account that couples and epochs are different, so some people find

these rules fundamental and suitable while others have a blurred

vision of the traditions set by our ancestors. Nowadays many couples

break these rules and live perfectly happy. Check out the list of 9 old-

fashioned marriage principles you can break today.

1. Always sleep together

Nowadays many lovely couples have to sleep in separate due to

different reasons. Do not feel upset if you face such a thing because

it’s not a signal of your love end. Just enjoy the possibility to sleep

separately like you did it being a kid. Try to revive new feelings and

spend more time together.

2. Fights lead to divorce

It often happens that a set of unresolved dilemmas can lead to

divorce. It seems to be silly when couples think about divorce having

various disputes. There are a lot of ways to resolve problems and

tiffs, the main point is to have a desire to be together. You are to

stand this grinding period to check the strength of your love. Don’t be

afraid to sort out difficulties in your relationship because it’s a

healthy thing.

3. Vacation together

Sometimes vacations apart can give a new portion of inspiration and

strengthen your love. Women and men have different visions and

nature, so sometimes it’s necessary to have a girl’s weekend or a

boy’s one. Not to feel lonely, try to have a separate vacation at the

same period. And remember that every person should have its own

space and individual time and it’s not a betrayal.

4. Mutual hobbies

When you are in a relationship, it’s not necessary to have only

common hobbies. As we know, tastes differ, so you just can talk about

your hobbies and share emotions. It’s marvelous if your interests are

the same and you have mutual hobbies. Don’t force each other, if you

don’t want to make your relationship strained

5. Don’t go to bed angry

Don’t go to bed angry

Fighting negative emotions isn’t an easy thing, especially when they

attack your mind in the evening. To my mind, bedtime is the most

productive period of time when different thoughts fill out your

conscience and bring on anger. Don’t keep it serious and try to cheer

each other up.

6. The honesty vow

Being completely honest seems to be impossible, but it doesn’t mean

that you should be a liar. Telling the truth all the time is noble, but it

can hurt your feelings. You may dislike his hairdo, elements of style

or other nonsignificant things and it’s not necessary to say him about

them all the time, because it’s a high way to a new tiff. It’s normal to

commit little lies, but don’t do the same with more important things

and try not to get a habit of a liar.

Keep things exciting

7. People often talk that it’s necessary to jazz up the relationship every

now and then. Sure, it’s great to try something new, but not every

day. We need to get used to new things, actions. That’s why routines

can be useful in a way, because it is necessary to get rid of constant

stresses caused by trying something new. Bucking your relationship

up is necessary, but with reasonable limits.

8. It’s over when the spark dies

It’s over when the spark dies

Typically, relationship starts with a spark and this fire burns forever.

Being charmed by our love, we try to keep it burning by all means.

Don’t be afraid of moments when your love seems to be lost. It is just

necessary to open a new page in the book of your relationship.

9. Avoid opposite sex friends

It’s okay to have opposite sex friends. When you have such friends,

you become all-rounded and it’s not a sign that you are looking for

romance. Many friends of mine have opposite sex friends and it

seems to be widespread today. In case you and your guy are very

jealous, you can get acquainted with your mutual friends and spend

time together.

We are free to break rules because they don’t have direct risks to

influence on your relationship in a negative way. Just love each other

and don’t get caught in an endless loop of old-fashioned rules. Which

old-fashioned marriage rule have you already broken?

 

Relationship


 I welcome you all to this great interactive segment that can change the way we feel about LOVE. Relation is not about getting the right person but creating a meaningful and beautiful environment with that lucking person in your heart.....that is the way I feel it.....I usman Jibril will like to share a little story of my life with you...

I was waiting for a right girl, who shall have all the quantity that I wanted in a woman....until a very great day in my life when a friend of mine called me and asked for exact reason why there was nobody in my life, I share my opinion with him(in which I believed it was a great Idea), after our discussion, he taught me a beautiful lesson...that I can never forget in my life which was meaningful and has a great impact in my love life till movement....

According to him, you can never have every qualities in a woman but you can marry someone who will listen and ready to bend to your demand if you make her understand....she will bend to your demands and probably change to what you dreamt of, then you shall have everything more than your demand....

I want to ask you this simple question....WHY DO PEOPLE GO IN A RELATION JUST FOR SEX MOTIVE....why do people get two girls when one is more than perfect?????

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         People get themselves in this kind of relationship simply because they are ignorant, lack of knowledge about LOVE and they are no ready to change because they enjoying having fun around and counting numbers of girls they have slept with just like a scrabble game.  People enjoying having affair with different girls because of;

1. Lack of trust: Nobody now aday can trust their partner 100%. Even If they want to try t it always seem impossible. They want to take revenge on new girl believing that no girl is trustworthy or no man worthy sacrifice for. No matter how hard their partner try to impress them, another beautiful girl will still be ringing on their mind, vice visa.

2. Motive: People get in relationship for different reasons, a girl or man find themselves in relationship for money, materials or family status, if a guy knew this motive, they will only want to taste their body, and place them as second in their heart until they find the real one.

3. Vision: if  relationship lack vision, all we think of is enjoy having all fun today, we dont talk about future, no plan of tomorrow, and a partner get priviledge of this act elsewhere he or she will prefer to have an affair with new partner.

4. Game: Everyone now a day see love as a game, everyone want to play this game and it makes them have plenty partners as to make the game sweet.

These ideas need to be changed, start thinking of building a great future with that lucking and wonderful girl or man in your heart.    

 

          All these ideas in the article above is directly from my heart...(usman jibril). Please Check the next chapter...... My believe in this chapter is that, you are ready to have a great relationship now and your initial ideas have been touched.

Must do in love

MUST DO IN LOVE AND MARRIAGE
SEX SEX SEX VOLUME1
This is for all the married women out there and
to all the good women who wished to get
married!!!
Marital Sex is not a sin! Never Permit Your
Husband To Sleep Around; He’s Only
Permitted To Sleep Around You! Never allow
his secretary to take your position! Give him
enough sex! Dress seductively for your
husband! If you are alone in the house put on
skimpy dresses, sexy under wears; dress to kill
him
at home before a strange woman kill
him outside! Stop tying wrapper round your
waist, it makes you look like a village woman!
Dress up in front of him! Walk naked in front
of him! Have you read that “They were naked
and were not ashamed?” He is your husband for
God sake! Don’t be ashamed to flirt with
your husband! Bath together! Eat together!
Play
together! Get involved in kissing, massaging,
fondling! Make it a habit to sleep without
panties except during menstruation. Invite him
for
a sex filled night! Tell him you will win him
on bed today! Make it a habit to communicate
with him about your sex life! Be creative!
Do different style that’s convenient for both of
you!It is not a sin! Appreciate him as you make
love together, never keep quiet as if your mouth
is
pad lock!=DDon’t lie down like a dead
wood and tell him to hurry up! No man will
love to have a”bedroom failure” as a wife!

Sunday, 17 December 2017

Youngelite Quran

Allah is Pure and Only Accept what is Pure
On the authority of Abu Hurairah (radiAllaahu ‘anhu) who said: The Messenger of Allah (sallAllaahu alayhi wa sallam) said
Allah the Almighty is Pure and accepts only that which is pure. And verily Allah has commanded the Believers to do that which He has commanded the Messengers. So the Almighty has said
“O (you) Messengers! Eat of the Tayyibaat [all kinds of Halaal (legal) foods], and perform righteous deeds.” [Al Mu’minun 23:51]
and the Almighty has said
“O you who believe! Eat of the lawful things that We have provided you” [Al Baqarah 2:172]
Then he mentioned [the case] of a man who, having journeyed far, is dishevelled and dusty, and who spreads out his hands to the sky saying “O Lord! O Lord!”, while his food is Haraam (unlawful), his drink is Haraam, his clothing is Haraam, and he has been nourished with Haraam, so how can [his supplication] be answered ?! [Narrated by Bukhari and Muslim.]

Allah is Pure
Pure in this connotation denotes that Allah is Holy – Al Qudoos, free from all deficiencies and flaws.
Allah use the word tayyib in a few different context in the quran.
Speech that is good and pure while the wicked is impure. Allah uses the word Tayyib to describe good.
26. bad statements are for bad people (or bad women for bad men) and bad people for bad. An Nur 24: 26
24. see You not How Allâh sets forth a parable? – a goodly word as a goodly tree, whose root is firmly fixed, and its branches (reach) to the sky (i.e. very high). Ibrahim 14: 24
10. Whosoever desires honour, power and Glory Then to Allâh belong All honour, power and Glory [and one can get honour, power and Glory Only by obeying and worshipping Allâh (Alone)]. to Him ascend (all) the goodly words, and the righteous deeds exalt it (the goodly Words i.e. the goodly Words are not accepted by Allâh unless and until they are followed by good deeds), but those who plot evils, Theirs will be Severe torment. and the plotting of such will perish. Fatir 35: 10
Allah also describes the Believers as pure. The word Tayyib here is used as pure or pious.
32. those whose lives the angels take while they are In a pious state (i.e. pure from All evil, and worshipping none but Allâh Alone) saying (to them): Salâmun ‘Alaikum (peace be on you) enter You Paradise, because of (the good) which You used to do (in the world).” An Nahl 16 : 32
Because of the faith in the believer’s heart, he is completely pure: his heart, his tongue, and his body. These are the fruits of faith.
Can you name the deeds that are pure done by the following organ?
heart
tongue
limbs
Allah only accepts from what is Pure and Lawful
Food that are Tayyib
The greatest ways in which a believer can achieve purity of deeds is by purity of his food, making sure it is from lawful sources. In both these verses (in the hadith) are Allah’s commands for us to eat things that are Tayyib – lawful.
Tayyib here means lawful. Lawful (in the context of food) means it is halal. In general one can eat anything unless it is stipulated as haram. And that is why it seems like in religion only haram things are discussed because there are plentiful of halal things to eat out there.
The haram food are
1. swine
2. Animal carcasses
3. Animals that are not slaughtered in the name of Allah
4. animals slaughtered on idolatrous altars
5. animals that we are not allowed to eat which hunt its prey using teeth and claws like dogs, cats and tigers.
6. Animals that are killed not by slaughtering – strangled, beaten, electrocuted and so forth.
Al Maidah 5: 3
Forbidden to You (for food) are: Al-Maytatah (the dead animals – cattle-beast not slaughtered), blood, the flesh of swine, and the meat of that which has been slaughtered as a sacrifice for others than Allâh, or has been slaughtered for idols, etc., or on which Allâh’s Name has not been mentioned while slaughtering, and that which has been killed by strangling, or by a violent blow, or by a headlong fall, or by the goring of horns – and that which has been (partly) eaten by a wild animal – unless You are Able to slaughter it (before its death) and that which is sacrificed (slaughtered) on AnNusub (stone altars). (Forbidden) also is to use arrows seeking luck or decision, (all) that is Fisqun (disobedience of Allâh and sin). This day, those who disbelieved have given up All hope of Your religion, so fear them not, but fear Me. This day, I have perfected Your Religion for you, completed My Favour upon you, and have chosen for You Islâm as Your religion. but as for Him who is forced by Severe hunger, with no inclination to sin (such can eat These above-mentioned meats), Then surely, Allâh is OftForgiving, Most Merciful.
7. Even halal food can become haram like fruits presented to idols such as the mandarin oranges put at the altar or the graves.
Let us ponder on this hadith
It is reported from Tariq Ibn Shihab (Radhi Allaahu Anhu) that the Prophet said:
“A man entered Paradise because of a fly, while another entered the Fire because of a fly.” They asked: “How was that possible, oh, Messenger of Allah ?” He replied: “Two men passed by a people who had an idol, which it was not permissible for anyone to pass without making a sacrifice to it. They (the people) said to the first man: “Sacrifice (something).” He said: “I have nothing with which to do so.” They said: “Sacrifice some-thing, even if it were only a fly,” and so he did so, and they allowed him to continue on his way and so he entered the Hell-fire. Then they said to the second man: “Sacrifice (something).” But he said: “I will not sacrifice anything unless it be to Allah , the Almighty, the All-powerful,” so they struck his neck (and he died) and entered Paradise.” (Narrated by Ahmad)
ix. Intoxication and drugs.
Intoxication and drugs (except for lawful use of medicine) is the mother of evils.

This indicates that eating what is lawful helps one to do righteous deeds. The Prophets, peace be upon them, did this in the most perfect manner, and did all kinds of good deeds in words, actions, guidance and advice. May Allah reward them with good on behalf of the people.
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Eating good food, when done intending obedience and in order to strengthen the body for carrying out one’s obligation, is thus rewarded by Allah
For as long as the food is lawful and the work is righteous, then the deeds be accepted.
Using Illegal Money
What is also haram food include the food that is bought using illegal money. Illegal money may come from stealing, or haram job, money out of lying, gambling money and so forth. Haram money brought to the home will be used to feed the family, he clothes they wear, the education they paid for, the medicine they bought and so forth. The whole life is built from haram.
If then, how can the supplications be accepted?
Ponder on this verse
27. and (O Muhammad ) recite to them (the Jews) the story of the two sons of Adam [Hâbil (Abel) and Qâbil (Cain)] In truth; when each offered a sacrifice (to Allâh), it was accepted from the one but not from the other. the latter said to the former: “I will surely kill you. ” the former said: “Verily, Allâh accepts Only from those who are Al-Muttaqûn (the pious – see V.2:2).” AlMaidah 5: 27
The Pious Predecessors used to fear for themselves from the implication of this verse that their deeds are not accepted by Allah. They pray for many months that their deeds in ramadhan is accepted. Whereas we are confident with our little worship. Astaghfirulah!
Charity out of ill gotten money is not acceptable.
Ibn Umar narrated that Prophet sallalahu alaihi wasalam said,
“Allah does not accept prayer that is not preceded by ablution, nor does He accept the charity given out of Ghulul (property taken from war booty before its distribution). (Muslim in Kitab At Taharah)
Summary
1. Eat lawful food
2. Take lawful earning
3. Deeds are accepted if one eats lawful food
4. Charity from haram is not accepted
Eating what is unlawful corrupts one deeds and prevents them from being accepted.
Allah commands His servants and Messengers, peace be upon them all, to eat lawful food and do righteous deeds.
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The Prophet sallallahu alaihi wasalam described the man who has travelled for a long period until he became unkempt and exhausted to illustrate a condition of hardship and humility during which response to supplication is most expected.
Prophet salllahu alaihi wasalam indicated the manners of supplication and the causes which bring to the response to it in this hadith. They are
1. Long journey
Narrated by Abu Hurayrah that the Prophet salllahualaihi wasalam said, “There are three whose supplication is answered without doubt: The supplication of the oppressed, the supplication of the traveler, and the supplication for the father od his son.” (Abu dawood in Kitab as Salah).
Bearing difficulties and dejection are some of the greatest causes for answer to supplication.
2. One’s clothes have become worn out, and his appearance is disheveled and dusty.
Prophet sallallahu alaihi wasalam said, “Many a person with disheveled hair (and dust coloured) is turned away from the doors (whereas Allah holds him in such high esteem) that if he were to swear by Allah, Allah would fulfill that for him. (Muslim in Kitab al Birr)
3. Raising one’s hand to the sky
Hadith of Salman, Prophet salllahu alaihi wasalam said, “Your Lord is magnificent and generous, and is ashamed to turn away empty the hands of His servant when he raises them to Him.”
Raising the hands in supplication was known to be the practice of the prophet salllahu alaihi wasalam. When he performed the prayer for rain, he raised his hands so high that ine could see the white of his armpit (Bukhary in Kitab Al Istisqa’). Also, when he besseched Allah for help against the polytheists during the Battle of Badr, he extended his arms such that his cloak fell of his shoulders. (Muslim in Kitab al Jihad was Siyar)
4. Pleading with Allah by repetitively remembering and metioning His Lordship. Using the supplication that are found in Quran, they areusually mentioned with the name of the Lord.
Other time that du’a is most maqbul. Tick what you can do most often.
1. The Last Third Of The Night
2. Late at night
3. Between Adhan and Iqamah
4. An Hour On Friday
5. While Drinking Zamzam Water
6. While Prostrating
7. When Waking Up at Night
8. The Night Of ‘Qadr’ (Decree)
9. During The Rain
10. The One Who Is Suffering Injustice and Opression
11. The Traveler
12. The Parent’s Supplication for their Child
13. Dua after praising Allah and giving salat on the Prophet (SAW) in the tashahhud at the end of salat.
14. The dua of a Muslim for his absent brother or sister Muslim stemming from the heart.
15. Dua on the Day of Arafat
16. Dua during the month of Ramadan
17. Dua when the Armies meet
18. When Muslims gather for the purpose of invoking and remembering Allah (Dhikrullah).
19. First Ten days of Dhul-Hijjah
20. Dua when the heart reaches out to Allah and is ready to be totally sincere
21. Dua of people after the death of a person
22. Dua of the one fasting until he breaks his fast.
23. Dua of the one fasting at the time of breaking fast
24. Dua of a just Ruler
25. Dua of a son or daughter obedient to his or her parents
26. Dua immediately after wudu
27. Dua after stoning the Jamarat at Hajj
28. At the Crowing of a Rooster
29. Du’a made inside the Ka’bah
30. Du’a on the mount of Safa or Marwah during Umrah or Hajj
31. Dua at any of the holy sites.
32. While reciting Surah al-Fatihah
33. Saying ‘Ameen’ during prayer
34. While visiting the sick, and dua made by the sick
Prophet sallallahu alaihi wasalam indicated what prevents the supplication from being answered which are delving into the unlawful whether from food, drink, clothes or nutrition.
If we study the description of the man, we can perhaps infer that the man may be on his journey for hajj and jihad – the greatest deed in the sight of Allah.
Yet, in spite of that, there remains a preventative factor when the person calls Allah: his unworthiness due to prolonged consumption of haram.
However, Allah does answer the supplication of the disobedient person. In fact He did answer the supplication one of the greatest disbeliever. Do you know who it is?
What did he supplicate for?
Al Aaraf 7:14-15.
14. (Iblîs) said: “Allow Me respite till the Day they are raised up (i.e. the Day of Resurrection).”
15. (Allâh) said: “You are of those allowed respite.”
Al Hijr 15: 37
36. [Iblîs (Satan)] said: “O My Lord! give Me Then respite till the Day they (the dead) will be resurrected.”
37. Allâh said: “Then, Verily, You are of those reprieved,
Al Saad 38: 80
79. [Iblîs (Satan)] said: “My Lord! give Me Then respite till the Day the (dead) are resurrected.”
80. (Allâh) said: “Verily! You are of those allowed respite
Allah also answers the supplication of the disbelievers even though they are not asking from Him. However, what Allah gives to them in this world now is insignificant compared to what Allah will give to the believers in yaumul akhirah. He answers the supplication due to His great wisdom and his infinite Grace and Kindness and Generosity. Allaah knows best.
This hadith, should make us alert that if one persists on consuming what is haram, they should not expect Allah’s aid and that response to his supplication is most likely until he repents from the sin.
Allah Is Pure
Allah is pure and except only what is pure. He only accepts the pure ones to enter in Jannah. The pure ones are the one who does good deeds (Amal soleh) and among the righteous (soleh).
The word ﺻﻠﺢ is usually translated as righteous. It actually carries the meaning of rectification, and being worthy or suitable, etc.
If you notice in one of the morning adzkar,
ﻳﺎﺣـﻲ ﻳﺎ ﻗـﻴـﻮﻡ، ﺑـﺮﺣﻤـﺘﻚ
ﺍﺳﺘـﻐـﻴﺚ،
ﺍﺻﻠـﺢ
ﻟﻲ ﺵَ ـﺎﻧـﻲ ِ
، ﻭﻻ ﺗﻜﻠـﻨﻲ ﺍﻟﻰ ﻧﻔـﺴﻲ ﻃـﺮﻓﺔ ﻋـﻴﻦ
O You Who is Everliving and Sustains and Protects everything, I seek assistance through the means of your mercy, rectify for me all my affairs and do not leave me to myself, even for the blink of an eye.
The word aslih ﺃﺻﻠﺢ is translated as Rectify.
Then we have the word amilus solihat ﻋَﻤِﻠُﻮﺍْ ﭐﻟﺼَّـٰﻠِﺤَـٰﺖِ
solihat is ﺻﺎﻟﺤﺎﺕ
this is derived from the word ﺻﻠﺢ
ﻭَﻋَﻤِﻠُﻮﺍْ ﭐﻟﺼَّـٰﻠِﺤَـٰﺖِ – amilus solihat is translated as good deeds.
Why Allah calls it solihat – because the deeds make them proper and good. The deeds are to correct and rectify the person. It makes them good and rectify the worldly affair and akhirat.
What it also means is doing deed that will rectify you so that you become among the solihin (ﺻﺎﻟﻴﺤﻴﻦ ). The soleh people (solihin is the plural for soleh) are the people who did deeds that rectified them and they become those who are rectified or those who are worthy because they are rectified.
Becomes worthy for what? Rectified and only then will be ﻳﺼﻠﺢ suitable/ worthy/ fit to be among Ar Rahman in His Jannah.
Jannah is only for the one who is rectified and had taqwa and did deeds that rectified them and made them worthy.
Allah only accepts those who are pure and they are from people who do righteous deeds.
Lessons
In this hadith the importance of avoiding the unlawful is emphasized. And this is one of those ahaadeeth upon which the Principles and Rulings of Islaam are built. It teaches that whoever expects his deeds to be accepted by Allah must not pollute them with something unlawful. A person who would like his supplications be answered by Allah should take care to consume only what is lawful. And that whosoever wishes to supplicate to Allaah should humble and submit himself before his Lord with that which is Halaal.
That Allaah accepts only that which is good
That every believer is obliged to do that which the Messengers were obliged to do (except what is specifically exempted)
That every Muslim must eat only Halaal and must take great care that he has avoided eating whatever he knew to be Haraam or suspicious
That performing righteous deeds is waajib for every one of us
That frequently we turn to Allaah for help while we do not try to eat, drink, maintain ourselves and earn in a pure way
That if we do not take care of the above then our prayers will not be effective
That it is correct to raise ones hands while asking Allaah for something
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ENTREPRENEURSHIP DEVELOPMENT SEMINAR AND ESSAY WRITING COMPETITION FOR PRIMARY AND SECONDARY SCHOOL STUDENTS
THEME:      Entrepreneurial and Writing Skills: Tools to ensuring a Positive Change
VENUE:      Government Day Senior Secondary School Adewole Ilorin, Kwara State
DATE:         Saturday, 25th of November, 2017.         
TIME:         10am-12pm
ORGANIZERS: Young Elite Group and COIN Consults ltd (CoinKwara Programme)
                                               
CATEGORY 3: SENIOR SECONDARY SCHOOL

QUESTIONS
In not less than 450 words, write an essay on the topic: The seminar I have ever attended
A friend of yours has been absent from the school for about a month due to illness. Write a letter to the friend describing some interesting things that have happened in the school during the period and expressing your wish for a quick recovery
write a story to illustrate the saying ‘One good turn deserves another’

ENTREPRENEURSHIP DEVELOPMENT SEMINAR AND ESSAY WRITING COMPETITION FOR PRIMARY AND SECONDARY SCHOOL STUDENTS
THEME:      Entrepreneurial and Writing Skills: Tools to ensuring a Positive Change
VENUE:      Government Day Senior Secondary School Adewole Ilorin, Kwara State
DATE:         Saturday, 25th of November, 2017.         
TIME:         10am-12pm
ORGANIZERS: Young Elite Group and COIN Consults ltd (CoinKwara Programme)
                                               
CATEGORY2: JUNIOR SECONDARY SCHOOL

QUESTIONS
In not less than 250 words, write a letter to your brother living with your grandmother, telling him about a seminar you attended
Write an essay on the increasing rate of unemployment in Nigeria. Suggest solutions to it.
Write an article on the topic: The importance of agriculture to our country Nigeria.




ENTREPRENEURSHIP DEVELOPMENT SEMINAR AND ESSAY WRITING COMPETITION FOR PRIMARY AND SECONDARY SCHOOL STUDENTS
THEME:      Entrepreneurial and Writing Skills: Tools to ensuring a Positive Change
VENUE:      Government Day Senior Secondary School Adewole Ilorin, Kwara State
DATE:         Saturday, 25th of November, 2017.         
TIME:         10am-12pm
ORGANIZERS: Young Elite Group and COIN Consults ltd (CoinKwara Programme)
                                               
CATEGORY 1: PRIMARY  SCHOOL

QUESTIONS
Write a composition title, “The person I admire the most”
Write a composition on the topic ‘My best friend’

Saturday, 16 December 2017

Young Elite Group Under 15 CHAMPIONSHIP CUP

YOUNG ELITE SPORT UNDER 15 CHAMPIONSHIP CUP

Young Elite Sport is a sub group of YOUNG ELITE GROUP. The association is a registered one with the  ministry of sports and youths, ILORIN, kwara State Nigeria 

We therefore invite your Club/ Academy  to a championship cup 2018/2019. The program is designed for our under 15 players, with weight of  55kg. This programme will start in the month of December, 2018 and Ends in the month of January, 2019. TROPHY will be presented to the winner of this tournament by the Ministry of Youth and sport Ilorin, Kwara State.


ABOUT THE ORGANIZERS
Members of this group consists of experience players, parading their trade around the globe and coaches The association is established WITH THE SOLE AIM OF YOUTH DEVELOPMENT and this can only be achieved through youth programs.


ABOUT THE PROGRAMME
This programme is established to promote sport and talented players around kwara State. It will also help players (Under 15) to be engaged and realize their potentials and dreams.
Matches in this tournament will be played HOME and AWAY. Teams participating must have at least two Jerseys. Our matches will be played at the same time and Thursday or Friday will be used. 

 The interested coaches can filled the necessary information in the form given below which includes the names of their players FOR our screening Exercise which will come up by last friend of the month of November 2018. Remember the form must be fully filled before the commencement of the SCREENING exercise.
Note that, players cannot be replaced or change during the course of the tournament, that is why it is advisable to register up to twenty five players with just #6,000 only.

Team to be part of the program:

-Team with good attitude and manner Players
-Teams who has a training pitch suitable for matches
-Team who has completed our league agreement letter and ready to abide with it.


Fill this gaps below
Name of the team ………………………………………………………………………
Name of the team coach and captain …………………………………………………………………………………………………..
Address of the team and the place of the team pitch is located ……………………………………………………………………. ...................................................................

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AGREEMENT LETTER
I,………………………………………………………….. from……………………………………………….. Team agreed to partake in the tournament and ready to follow the rules and regulations guiding this tournament and also ready to accept the decision of the panel/ Board.
I shall agreed to all these below;
I will accept referees’ decision and protect all the referees assigned to our matches
I will not use any player(s) that has not be registered with the organizer in the tournament
In case of yellow card and red card, I shall pay the entire fine before the next game
Red card leads to a match suspension
I will respect any time allocated for our matches and be there at least 30 minutes before the stated time
All matches started at the same time


Coach Signature/Name   


     YEG League Chairman’ Signature & Name


TEAM CAPTAIN

       
Official’s Sign& Name


The chairma, young Elite sport


Saturday, 9 December 2017

Learn from other great youth association

WHAT FORM CAN A YOUTH ORGANIZATION TAKE?
WHY ESTABLISH YOUTH ORGANIZATIONS?
WHO SHOULD ESTABLISH YOUTH ORGANIZATIONS?
WHEN SHOULD YOU ESTABLISH A YOUTH ORGANIZATION?
HOW DO YOU ESTABLISH A YOUTH ORGANIZATION?
SPECIAL SECTION: HELP FOR ADULTS SEEKING SUCCESS IN BUILDING A YOUTH ORGANIZATION
You're an adult, walking through the shopping mall, when you see a bunch of teenagers horsing around. You're amazed at their energy--or maybe, you're appalled by some of their antics. You wish (for the hundredth time - you have kids of your own) that you could channel that energy into something productive.
Or maybe you're a teenager, and a girl at school just committed suicide. She wasn't a good friend of yours, but still--you feel really bad. You wonder what you could have done, or if there were signs you just missed. You even look on the Internet for some information on teen suicide, but you need more than facts. You want to find a way to make sure that this doesn't happen again at your school. You know that some of your friends feel the same way--but what can you all do?
Either as a concerned young person or an interested adult, one option open to you is starting a youth organization. Organizations that are run by or for youth can offer a lot to your community. Think of all of the organizations you already know about--you've probably been involved in some yourself, at one time or another. There are groups centered around almost every topic you can think of, with a huge variety of goals. Here's a grab-bag of examples:
Boy Scouts
Soccer leagues
SADD (Students Against Drunk Driving)
A student chapter of Amnesty International
A class that volunteers in the community
A teen advisory panel for a city-wide health organization
Youth organizations can be started by young people themselves or by interested adults. In this section, we'll try to look at the steps in developing a youth organization from the perspectives of both groups. We'll start with a look at what a youth group can be, and at the overall advantages of starting one. Then we'll talk briefly about who should start such a group, and the unique advantages of an adult organizing the group or of the young people doing it themselves. Next, we'll look at the right time for starting such a group, and then at how you should go about doing it. Finally, we'll wrap up with a section for adult mentors, with special tips on working with young people.
WHAT FORM CAN A YOUTH ORGANIZATION TAKE?
A youth organization can be almost as broad--or as narrow--in scope as an organization for adults, or for the community as a whole. Youth organizations can be run through schools, in churches, in neighborhoods, or at local rec centers. They may operate on a local, national, or even international level. They can be organized and run by young people themselves, or they might be developed by adults such as coaches, ministers, or staff of the local YWCA. A local youth organization can also be one branch of a larger group; for example, a local coalition to decrease substance abuse might have a youth advisory board that offers suggestions as to what they think will work to stop young people from drinking.
In this section, we are going to concentrate primarily on youth organizations that are developed specifically to improve the community--for example, health organizations such as Students Against Drunk Driving--or groups that are formed to increase participation in civic life. However, many of the ideas that we discuss here can be easily translated to any type of student group, such as youth theater or sports teams.
One example of a successful youth organization is CityKids . CityKids is an organization with branches across the United States. Their mission is to engage and develop diverse young people to positively impact the world.
Their goals are:
Having a safe space for youth
Promoting open youth-to-youth communication
Multicultural bridge building
Enhancing leadership development among young people
The group does many different things to try and attain these goals. For example, they hold a weekly "Coalition" meeting where they bring together diverse groups of young people to explore cultural, racial, and sexual issues. The group is involved in many aspects of youth's lives, and offers opportunities for leadership development and guidance for both education and careers.
An off-shoot of CityKids is the CityKids Repertory Company, in which young people transform feelings and experiences about youth issues into music, dance, and drama. They perform their skits in their neighborhoods and at schools, community centers, and prisons. They have performed on stage, and some of their work has been developed into videos and shown on television. For example, the group developed Kayla's story, a video that documents a fictional teen pregnancy. The video is distributed across the nation.
CityKids is a successful example of young people choosing issues they find important, finding a safe space, and helping one another strengthen their community. The organization helps them gain leadership skills and a close-knit peer group, and it sends a positive message to youth throughout the community.
WHY ESTABLISH YOUTH ORGANIZATIONS?
Participation in a youth organization has many advantages for the youth themselves, as well as for the entire community. Of course, the most obvious advantage of membership is that youth organizations provide young people a forum to fully, effectively deal with an issue that is especially important to them, such as youth violence or education. However, there are a lot of other advantages to youth groups. We list some of these advantages below.
ADVANTAGES FOR YOUNG PEOPLE:
Being part of a group can help young people develop important personal and interpersonal skills. These include the ability to think critically and solve problems, and the assumption of personal and group responsibility.
It can also help young people gain self-confidence and self-esteem. Contributing to a group can help them see themselves as being able to really help other people, and having something important to offer.
It can help reduce the risk of becoming involved in unsafe activities, such as using drugs and alcohol. Being involved in community activities has been shown to be a protective factor--that is, it helps young people to make healthy choices. That's because by being involved in an organization, they can develop a "safe" identity, and are less likely to participate in unsafe activities (such as becoming sexually active before they are ready) to feel they belong.
Young people involved in organizations can develop job skills, including organization, the ability to run meetings, and experience working with a wide variety of people. These skills that young people learn from being part of a group can help them be better prepared for any job they might choose.
Often, organizations give youth a "safe space" that they wouldn't have otherwise--a place where they can express themselves through arts and activities, or just by being able to talk openly with peers and caring adults.
Youth organizations offer opportunities for leadership that young people might not get otherwise.
Young people involved in organizations can receive information on staying safe and healthy from their peers or adults they know and respect. They then pass on this information to other young people. In this way, youth organizations offer a credible way for young people to learn about staying healthy, because they can learn about it from friends they admire, rather than adults or other outsiders whose opinions they might not value.
Young people can develop a strong support network of other young people who make healthy choices, and who can help convince them to stay healthy, too.
ADVANTAGES FOR THE COMMUNITY:
Youth organizations can help change public perception of young people from being "the problem" to an important part of making life better in the community.
Involving young people in the community helps them see themselves as part of the whole; they really do become less likely to cause problems and more likely to want to look for solutions.
By involving young people, the community is allowing them to carefully develop their leadership potential, so that as they grow and learn they can become thoughtful, prepared leaders of the society.
Other community organizations can often partner with youth organizations, to mutual benefit. Young people can bring a tremendous amount of life to an organization; often, their energy, enthusiasm, creativity, and perspective are invaluable to members of larger community initiatives that choose to actively involve them.
WHO SHOULD ESTABLISH YOUTH ORGANIZATIONS?
As we said above, youth organizations can be started by two broad groups of people: young people themselves, or an adult who cares about them. Both options make sense in some circumstances, and both offer their own unique advantages. Let's look at some of the ideas behind both groups starting youth organizations.
ADULTS
Adults who begin or sponsor youth organizations can come from almost anywhere. Most commonly, they include teachers, coaches, ministers, parents, and staff of social service agencies. Sometimes, they don't have any direct tie to young people, but have experience or expertise they'd like to pass on. ("I was a mom at 16, and I'd like to help new teen parents survive all of the challenges.")
Wherever they come from, what adults who start youth organizations do (or should ) have in common is their commitment -- to youth, to helping people, and to the group's goals.
Being an insider (someone the local young people know and respect, such as a popular teacher) can make it much easier to start a youth organization. Insiders often find it easier to plan activities that are interesting to youth. They know the area, know the kids, and know what's likely to work. (They also may have a better idea of what students will probably just think is "lame.") Also, young people might be more attracted to programs started by insiders because they know and trust them. If the adult sponsor is from the same area or ethnic group, the young people might feel that they have a better chance of the adult understanding what they are going through, and the circumstances that they have to deal with on a daily basis. This is especially true when groups are involved in sensitive issues, such as drug abuse, violence, or teen sexuality.
Of course, people from outside the community can come to the community to work, and they sometimes bring great success. Often, these people do work that is connected to a national organization like the YMCA or the Girl Scouts. While they will have to overcome the challenges of becoming known and respected by young people in the community, these outsiders can bring a recognized name and successful programming to new communities. Another advantage of having an outsider start a youth group is that she can bring new energy, a new perspective, and additional resources to a community.
Regardless of whether the adult is an insider or an outsider, having an adult organize or sponsor the group can add credibility to the youth organization, helping young people gather both respect and resources. For example, most young people haven't ever written grant applications, while an adult sponsor may very well have done so. For this reason, most youth organizations might want to at least have an adult with whom the group is affiliated. It can open doors that are usually (unfortunately, and unfairly, but realistically) closed to young people working on their own.
Key Club is an international organization dedicated to community service that was founded through the Kiwanis Club in 1925. Every Key Club conducts an active program of service for school and the community. Projects are centered around a different theme every year.
The club's objectives are to develop leadership, to serve school and community, and to help young people prepare for useful citizenship. Each Key Club is sponsored and overseen by the local Kiwanis club, with Key Club members attending Kiwanis meetings and vice versa. Students involved in Key Club work to improve their community through an established international network, drawing on each other for support and ideas on community development.
YOUNG PEOPLE
Of course, young people are usually all too aware of the issues that affect them, whether those issues include violence, suicide, or anything else. They also know what's really happening much better than most adults hired to lead a student organization. They may work together and form a formal organization, such as SADD, or something much less formal to stay informed and get things done without a lot of resources.
Riot grrrl is an attempt to develop an "all girl" sub-culture. It's a feminist network that developed in the underground music communities of Olympia, Washington and Washington, DC. Originally formed by the members of the bands Brat Mobile and Bikini Kill, the organization now supports activities that are not only music related, but focus on racism, classism, sexism, and supporting young women in staying safe and healthy. Although the network is very informal, information is distributed and networks are set up through paper and electronic "zines," self-published independent texts devoted to various issues and hobbies. The zines often enclose notes requesting feedback and personal interaction with readers. Many zines cover sensitive topics, such as rape and child abuse, and young women can write the zines to seek support.
Riot grrrl is a good example of an informal network that addresses issues that are important to youth. Since all of the work is done by young people themselves, it serves as a great way to empower the young people who develop it and those who just surf by their web pages.
WHEN IS A GOOD TIME TO ESTABLISH AN ORGANIZATION?
Really, there's probably not a bad time, especially if young people are interested in starting a group. But some time periods and events lend themselves particularly well to mobilizing young people to improve their communities. These times include:
When a dramatic, disturbing, or significant event occurs in the community, such as some of the recent teen murder-suicides that have occurred at high schools across the nation
At the beginning of the school year, when young people are anxious to get to know each other, to belong, and to learn what's going on
When new information becomes known. For example, a local group may survey young people and find that a large number of them report getting drunk on a regular basis. This information might be the stimulus to start a group to try to curb youth drinking.
When current organizations are not meeting community needs
When a group wants to create broad, significant community changes. This is a good example of a time when it makes sense to include young people in a larger group, such as starting a youth advisory board for a city-wide organization.
To respond to threats to the community, such as increased violence
When a significant issue specifically concerning youth needs to be confronted
HOW DO YOU ESTABLISH YOUTH ORGANIZATIONS?
DECIDE WHAT TYPE OF YOUTH ORGANIZATION YOU WANT TO FORM
If you are a young person yourself, you may already know what type of group you would like to form. But at the very least, you'll probably want to ask your friends and other young people how they feel about that issue. Ask very direct questions, such as:
What problems are so important to people our age/to our community that you would join a group to change them?
What is the biggest concern for young people today?
What's the real cause of the problem ?
What do you think should be done about the problem?
Do you know of anything going on right now to solve the problem? (This question is a good way to learn about things you might not know are going on, that you could team up with to be more effective.)
You might also talk to people who are potential sponsors to see what their suggestions are, and how they feel about your ideas.
Adults, too, might have specific ideas (or grant money) to work on a particular issue in a particular way. However, if you're an adult, it's even more important to get feedback on what you are thinking about doing. Are young people interested in what you want to work on? Would they be willing to commit time and resources to it? Is it something they believe in?
Adults, like young people, will probably also want to get support from others in the community. They may be able to donate space or resources that you need. Also, if you're organizing a youth group for the first time, they might have some great tips as to what is most effective in working with young people in your community.
One option you will want to consider is whether or not you want the group to be affiliated with a national organization. For example, if you know a group of young people interested in human rights, should they start a local chapter of Amnesty International, or should they develop a small local organization that focuses on the treatment of migrant workers in your area? Many national and international organizations exist that can offer support and resources to a fledgling organization. However, your group may feel it wants more autonomy, or isn't interested in being part of a large, impersonal-seeming organization. The answer may be clear from the start for your group, but it's important to make sure the question is raised before you begin your work.
DECIDE WHERE THE ORGANIZATION SHOULD BE BASED
Where the organization is based has a lot to do in determining who will join. Many of your meetings and other activities will be held there. You may get resources, such as money and supplies, depending on where you are located. And possibly most important, a lot of people who join the organization may join because they are already affiliated with the organization's home base -- they're students at the school, or members of the church, or so on. It's important to realize, too, that some young people may not join an organization because of where it's located. For example, a high school dropout may not want to come back to her old school for any reason.
Very commonly, youth organizations operate out of schools, churches and synagogues, social service agencies, or informally out of someone's home. Each of these options--as well as others you might come up with--will have advantages and disadvantages. You'll want to think this through before you decide where to set it up.
Maybe this isn't even a question for your group. If you want to convince young people who have dropped out of school to return to class or obtain their GEDs, a high school clearly isn't the place to find participants. However, for a coach who is interested in forming a chapter of SADD (Students Against Drunk Driving), the local high school is absolutely the best place to do it. Not only is the group, by nature, a student organization, with many of its activities run in conjunction with other school activities (such as prom), the coach will have most credibility at her school, where she and the students already know each other.
However, the situation isn't always as clear-cut as those above. For example, your organization might have been given some seed money to work with young people that came with very loose guidelines. If you want to, you could base the group at the high school (where a lot of kids are), at your organization (you really don't have much room, but at least you know where everything is), or maybe you should partner with the local YMCA, where a lot of the kids hang out. What do you do?
When the proposed location isn't absolutely clear, then those people who are starting the organization might want to sit down and discuss what makes most sense for the group. You might start by brainstorming all of the possible places where you could host the group, and then list the advantages and disadvantages of each. Members of the group might discuss:
Would this place be willing to host us?
Would the young people we want to recruit feel comfortable going there?
Would there be any financial costs to our group?
Would this place be willing to help us out with resources?
Is it a place that agrees with (or at least, isn't opposed to) what we are doing? (For example, a Catholic school might not be the ideal location for safe sex education that included a discussion of birth control.)
Do members of our group have strong ties to this place?
How difficult would it be for young people to get to this place?
Often, after looking at these questions (and others that members of your group might think of), answers to this problem become completely clear.
RECRUIT MEMBERS (AND, IF NECESSARY, ADULT ASSISTANTS)
Of course, you can't have an organization--youth-based or otherwise--without members. And so your next step is to get the word out about what you are doing. How you will do this will depend on who you want to recruit. Do you want to recruit only students? Members of your parish? Young people from all over town? The process of recruiting members can be as simple as making an announcement in an assembly or after church or as complicated as running a campaign with radio public service announcements getting the word out across town.
With all the possibilities, however, it's important that you don't forget plain old word of mouth. Getting kids to talk up your group is the best way to ensure that you have the members you want and need. This is often especially true when dealing with "at-risk" youth, who may not even be at school or church when you make your announcement.
As we mentioned above, if your group has been started by young people, you might decide to involve adults as sponsors or facilitators. In that case, decide whom you would feel comfortable with as your sponsor, and exactly what you would want him to do for your group. It's probably best to decide on a short list of (four or five) people to ask, in case your first choice(s) don't have the time or interest to help your group out.
Before you approach someone, you should also have an understanding of exactly what you would want her to do for your organization. For example, would she need to show up at every meeting? Speak up for the organization at faculty meetings? Help you obtain resources, such as money, equipment, and a meeting place? If you haven't thought this out and discussed it with your potential sponsor, neither you nor the sponsor will be clear on her role. This can easily lead to frustration, anger, and missed opportunities for everyone involved.
DEFINE YOUR GOALS CLEARLY WITH GROUP MEMBERS
Once you have your members together, it's time to sit down and make a plan . Members might brainstorm for ideas, but essentially, you will want to try to answer two questions:
What do we want to do?
How should we go about doing that?
The better organized you are, the more likely it is your group will succeed.
FIND OUT WHAT RESOURCES ARE AVAILABLE TO YOUR ORGANIZATION
Especially if your group is affiliated with a larger organization, such as a school, church, or national group, there are probably resources out there that could help you. Find out what they are, and how you can get them transferred to your organization.
In addition to groups you are affiliated with somehow, there might be other sources willing to support a youth organization. Grants or
mini-grants might be available from the government, private sources, or local coalitions; other organizations with similar goals might be willing to help you out. This support can come in many different forms, from money to a meeting place to free advertising. Ask around; see what resources similar organizations, either in your town or similar places, have managed to get, and ask how they've gotten them. The United Way might be able to point you to some resources as well.
And beyond all of that, the simplest thing to do is think about what you need, and who is likely to be able to give that to you most easily. Need paint? Try asking the owner of the local hardware store. Need publicity? Call the local radio station, and ask what their policy is for producing and airing public service announcements (PSAs). And so on.
OBTAIN AND USE THOSE RESOURCES
Once you've found out what is possible, go for it! And don't forget a thank you note to whoever helps you out.
It can be hard (and sometimes frightening!) to ask for money or help from other people or organizations. This can be especially true for young people, who might find the idea of going in and trying to speak with a bank president to be daunting. Remember, though, that you're not asking for help for yourself--you're asking them to support a cause you believe in. So square your shoulders and give it a try. The only sure thing is that if you don't ask, you won't get the help your organization needs.
ORIENT AND TRAIN STAFF, ADULT ASSISTANTS, AND PARTICIPANTS
This step may be less necessary in some situations than in others. If you're developing an informal rap group for teen parents, there probably isn't a whole lot of training involved. But in any group, it's important that you sit down at the very start and talk about what is expected from both staff (if there are any involved) and from participants. For example, even in our hypothetical rap group mentioned above, there will be some ground work to do: You might want facilitators to do some reading about teen parents (especially if they don't have much experience with them), or about learning to be an effective facilitator. At the first meeting, the facilitator might then take some time to show the parents around the facilities, lead an "ice-breaker " so the teens will feel more comfortable speaking openly, and help them develop "ground rules" that will be followed in future meetings.
GET TO WORK!
Now that you've decided what you want to do, go to it! With the hard work of planning behind you (at least for the moment--there will always be changes on the way), it's time take a deep breath and go to it!
CELEBRATE YOUR SUCCESSES!
Even if something wasn't the huge success you hoped it would be, everyone should give themselves proper credit for what has been accomplished. Organizing a youth group of any kind is hard work. Be sure to celebrate all of your small successes along the way. Not only do you deserve it, but celebrating will also help keep energy high, so your group will be able to move on to bigger and better things.
SPECIAL SECTION: HELP FOR ADULTS SEEKING SUCCESS IN BUILDING A YOUTH ORGANIZATION
There's no question that being an adult mentor or facilitator for a youth organization can be hard work, especially if this is the first time you have done so. However, it can also be a richly rewarding experience. Some of the tips below might help you in your quest to run a fun, successful organization for youth without pulling out all of your hair in the process.
Think of young people as resources, rather than as troublemakers or a difficult population that you need to help in spite of themselves. Having a positive attitude in which you see young people as having great potential rather than being "at-risk troublemakers" is the best way to be sure you will get the best they have to offer. Most times when working with young people, you get what you expect. If you make it clear to them that you think they are the greatest kids on earth, chances are they'll work very hard to live up to that view.
Make sure that the young people are responsible for a large portion of the planning and decision-making. Even if you are running a grant program given by a federal agency with strict limitations, it's very important to pass as much authority as possible on to the youth themselves. This should help them believe in the organization--that it's really there for them, not just as a way for your organization to use them to get more money.
Think about turning the organization into a "full-service organization" where young people can come for help and friendship--a place where they can find a safe and trusted ear in addition to the stated goals of your organization. All too often, young people feel they have nowhere to turn, and no one to speak with about troubles they have. Let the young people know quite explicitly that you're there for them, and that they can come to you with any problems that they have.
Give young people the opportunity for real responsibilities and real work. If you do so (and make sure it's coupled with real support), chances are it will lead to real accomplishments. Also, try to give them the responsibility they are ready for. Often times, this means starting out small, and then as they become more adept and experienced, slowly making their responsibilities more challenging. That way, competence should grow along with confidence.
Make sure that roles and rules are clearly defined. If all decisions will be with adults (although we don't recommend it), it's better to say so up front. If some decisions are out of your hands as well as theirs, let them know that, too. Young people usually know when you're not being straight with them--it's a great way to lose their respect in a hurry.
Finally, remember that as a leader or a staff member of a youth organization you are both a role model and an example to the young people who know you. What you say and how you act--even when you are not working in your "official" capacity--will not only influence their opinion of you, it may also influence their decisions and actions in the future.
IN SUMMARY
Youth organizations can offer terrific benefits to local young people and the community at large. They can have a tremendous impact on the lives of youth. Whether you are a young person yourself, or simply someone concerned about your community, we encourage you to explore the creation of a youth organization in your community today!
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Catie Heaven
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Young elite program

TUESDAY, 28 NOVEMBER 2017
Coinwara programme at 01:19 Primary and Secondary education occupy a central place in Nigerian educational system as it provides student with moral, cultural and pedagogical skills require for self-actualization. Among the agents of socialization is school and it is generally accepted that school provides formal education designed to nurture young people towards developing a more realistic personality. School cannot successfully complete this enormous task alone. It is therefore incumbent on the other social institutions to collaborate with the school at this stage in building these young people’s future because their future is damaged if their transition through this stage is not well guided.
To continue its tradition of social and entrepreneurship development, Coin Consults under its CoinKwara programme collaborated with Youth Elite Group to support the schools and our future (the students) by organizing an ‘Entrepreneurship Development Seminar and Essay Writing Competition for Primary and Secondary School Students’ . The programme held on 25 th November, 2017 at Government Day Senior Secondary School, Adewole, Ilorin, Kwara State and was gracefully attended by 30 participants made up of primary, junior and senior secondary school students alongside their teachers. The participating schools were:
Al-Ikhlas Nursery and Primary School, Adewole, Ilorin, Kwara State.
Excel Kiddies Academy, Islamic Village, Ilorin, Kwara State.
Evergreen International College, Asa-Dam, Ilorin, Kwara State.
As-Sekinat Nursery and Primary School, Osere, Ilorin, Kwara State.
Government Day Secondary School, Adewole, Ilorin, Kwara State.
Declaring the programme opened, the president of Youth Elite Group-Mr. Uthman Jibril explained that, the seminar was combined the way it was in order to innovate on the existing norm of seminars where the target audience were usually matured people. More importantly also was their wish to, ‘kill two birds with one stone’ by inculcating two skills- entrepreneurial and essay writing skills in the students. The CoinKwara Programme Director- Mr. Hanafi Olanrewaju Rabiu while welcoming the participants to the programme reiterated that, though majority of programmes on these two important things- entrepreneurship and essay writing are focused on adults, tertiary and senior secondary school students, they nevertheless conceived the idea that it would be better to expose these young ones to seminar, entrepreneurship development, essay writing and inter school competition at this early stage of their lives. He told the students that their future started right away and they should start having long term vision for themselves.
The programme comprised of a seminar and essay writing competition. The seminar was held to orientate the students on entrepreneurship and essay writing, while the competition is to test them afterward.
Mr. Hanafi presented a paper titled, ‘Building your future through Entrepreneurial Skills’. In an interactive manner, he led the participants through, “what entrepreneurship is, who entrepreneurs are, kinds of entrepreneurs, importance of entrepreneurs and the necessary things to do to become an entrepreneur”. {The copy of the paper presented can be read at
https://coinkwara.blogspot.com.ng/ }. Dr. Usman Akanbi, the Coordinator of Knowledge Platform who also lectures at University of Ilorin was the guest speaker at the programme. He mentored the students using past experiences, real life examples and using both English and Yoruba language to explain to them the importance of writing and how they could improve their writing skills. He elated the spirits of the participants by recounting his personal journey of being a novice writer to becoming an award-winning writer in the country. He told the participants that they would have to read far and wide to become a good writer themselves. He explained further that becoming a good writer was not limited to those who studied English and in fact they could become a good writer in any language. He concluded his topic of discussion, ‘How to write an Award Winning Essay’ by explaining the steps to follow in order to write a good essay.
The day’s event ended with essay writing. The result of the essay would be out in a week’s time and certificate/prizes would be presented to the